You have agreed to seek counseling to resolve the conflicts between you. A separation or divorce is a drastic event for you and your children. This leads to a change in familiar and important relationships and living habits.
Children lose their familiar family environment and their regular relationship with both parents. Feelings of loss and anxiety can arise.
This situation represents a major challenge for many, which may be associated with recurring conflicts.
You are also dealing with all kinds of questions. Questions that may sound like this, for example:
- How can we talk to each other again?
- My children don't want to see their father/mother. What can I do?
- When can I see my child?
- Why is my child having difficulties at school?
- Why is my child so aggressive?
- Why does my son/daughter withdraw into his/her room?